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The Killer Trio: Anxiety, Paranoia and Fear.

April 04, 2018

Anxiety and paranoia are two separate conditions, but in some ways they have a lot in common. Both represent fear, and cause people to dwell on negative experiences that otherwise may not be as big as they seem.
Many of those living with anxiety worry that their paranoid, or get blamed for being paranoid by others. Are those with anxiety paranoid? Can anxiety cause paranoia? We explore these ideas in this article.
Are You Experiencing Paranoia?
Anxiety can affect the way you see yourself and others, which may feel like paranoia. The more severe the anxiety, the worse it may be. .

Anxiety Changes Thoughts

An important component of anxiety is that anxiety has the ability to genuinely change thoughts in a way that you may not even notice. Those with anxiety are more likely to think negative thoughts in a way that is very similar to how paranoia is experienced.
If you are constantly feeling as though things are going wrong or assuming the worst, that may indicate that you have anxiety.

How Anxiety Creates Paranoia

Anxiety is not only psychological – it is biological. When you have anxiety, your brain chemistry is changed. Neurotransmitters that control emotions and mood start to misfire, and eventually they start to affect the way you think. It feels natural – you may even believe the thoughts are justified – but they are very likely to be more negative they would be if you were anxiety free.
There are many ways in which this is similar to and may appear to be paranoia. Rest assured, paranoia and anxiety are completely different conditions. But there are some similarities. Here are some examples:

Worrying About Bad Things Happening

Both those with anxiety and those with paranoia often worry about worst case scenarios. For example, a child with anxiety would worry that their parents are going to get hurt in a car accident. A child with paranoia may worry that someone is after their parents to hurt them. Both are fairly similar.
Many of those with anxiety do worry often, especially about irrational things. Those with paranoia also tend to assume the worst, believing that these dangers are destiny.

Worrying that Something is Wrong With Themselves

During anxiety attacks, people often worry that something is wrong with their health. Some people develop health anxiety – constantly checking their symptoms online to see what’s wrong with them and occasionally believing that they have a terrible disorder. They may even believe the doctor hasn’t provided them with honest information.
Those with paranoia may worry the same thing. Though sometimes the worries are a bit more extreme (believing the doctor gave you an illness themselves, for example), the worry that something is wrong is often still there. They may become obsessive about their health in a way that resembles anxiety and see any ache and pain as a sign that doom is eminent.

Others View Them Differently

Finally, anxiety may cause others to view you differently. They may even believe you are paranoid. A common example occurs in those with social anxiety. When someone with social anxiety walks into a room, they often feel like eyes are on them and that people are judging them. Those with paranoia often feel the same way. Others may look at these behaviors as “being paranoid” and may share those thoughts with you in a way that is discouraging, but in reality it is simply a part of that type of disorder.
Most forms of anxiety show some degree of this. Someone that has to wash their hands often because they’re worried about germs may appear paranoid to others. Someone that jumps at loud noises because of their post-traumatic stress disorder may appear to be paranoid as well. All of these are anxiety disorders, yet they cause issues that are very similar to paranoia.

How to Tell the Difference Between Paranoia and an Anxiety Disorder

Despite all of these commonalities, these are two very different disorders. Anxiety disorders may cause behaviors that are similar to paranoia, and those with anxiety may even have some “paranoid tendencies” in the sense that they worry about things that may be irrational. But paranoia and anxiety are completely different.
For one thing, someone with severe paranoia often suffers from delusions, and no amount of counseling can cause them to truly believe it’s a delusion. Paranoia is a consuming disorder, and there are rarely any breaks. Those with paranoia also tend to perceive danger and conspiracy even more than those with anxiety. Those with anxiety simply worry, and while their minds may go to worst case scenarios, they still know that these are just worries. These conditions may sound like they have similarities, but from a clinical standpoint they are incredibly different conditions.

You’re Likely Not Paranoid – You Have Anxiety

Only a psychologist can diagnose your disorder, and tell you if you have anxiety or paranoia. But paranoia is surprisingly uncommon. Very few people develop those delusional tendencies, especially without the influence of drugs or schizophrenia.
You may have worries that sound like paranoia to others, but in reality you simply have anxiety. And while no one wants to suffer from anxiety, the good news is that anxiety can always be treated.

How can I help myself?

Face your fear if you can

If you always avoid situations that scare you, you might stop doing things you want or need to do. You won’t be able to test out whether the situation is always as bad as you expect, so you miss the chance to work out how to manage your fears and reduce your anxiety. Anxiety problems tend to increase if you get into this pattern. Exposing yourself to your fears can be an effective way of overcoming this anxiety.

Know yourself

Try to learn more about your fear or anxiety. Keep an anxiety diary or thought record to note down when it happens and what happens. You can try setting yourself small, achievable goals for facing your fears. You could carry with you a list of things that help at times when you are likely to be become frightened or anxious. This can be an effective way of addressing the underlying beliefs that are behind your anxiety.

Try to learn more about your fear or anxiety. Keep a record of when it happens and what happens.

Exercise

Increase the amount of exercise you do. Exercise requires some concentration, and this can take your mind off your fear and anxiety.

Relax

Learning relaxation techniques can help you with the mental and physical feelings of fear. It can help just to drop your shoulders and breathe deeply. Or imagine yourself in a relaxing place.
Eat lots of fruit and vegetables, and try to avoid too much sugar. Resulting dips in your blood sugar can give you anxious feelings. Try to avoid drinking too much tea and coffee, as caffeine can increase anxiety levels.

Avoid alcohol, or drink in moderation

It’s very common for people to drink when they feel nervous. Some people call alcohol ‘Dutch courage’, but the after-effects of alcohol can make you feel even more afraid or anxious.

Complementary therapies

Some people find that complementary therapies or exercises, such as relaxation techniques, meditation, yoga, or t’ai chi, help them to deal with their anxiety.

Faith/spirituality

If you are religious or spiritual, this can give you a way of feeling connected to something bigger than yourself. Faith can provide a way of coping with everyday stress, and attending church and other faith groups can connect you with a valuable support network.

How do I get help?

Talking therapies

Talking therapies, like counselling or Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, are very effective for people with anxiety problems, including Computerised Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, which takes you through a series of self-help exercises on screen.

Medication

Drug treatments are used to provide short-term help, rather than looking at the root of the anxiety problems. Drugs may be most useful when they are combined with other treatments or support.

Support groups

You can learn a lot about managing anxiety from asking other people who have experienced it. Local support groups or self-help groups bring together people with similar experiences so that they can hear each other’s stories, share tips and encourage each other to try out new ways to manage themselves. Your doctor, library or local Citizens Advice bureau will have details of support groups near you.

Overcoming Bad Habits

April 04, 2018

Bad habits interrupt your life and prevent you from accomplishing your goals. They jeopardize your health — both mentally and physically. And they waste your time and energy.
So why do we still do them? And most importantly, is there anything you can do about it?
I’ve previously written about the science of how habits start, so now let’s focus on the practice of making changes in the real world. How can you delete your bad behaviors and stick to good ones instead?
I certainly don’t have all of the answers, but keep reading and I’ll share what I’ve learned about how to break a bad habit.
Before we talk about how to get started, I wanted to let you know I researched and compiled science-backed ways to stick to good habits and stop procrastinating. Want to check out my insights? Download my free PDF guide “Transform Your Habits” here.
What causes bad habits?
Most of your bad habits are caused by two things…
Stress and boredom.
Most of the time, bad habits are simply a way of dealing with stress and boredom. Everything from biting your nails to overspending on a shopping spree to drinking every weekend to wasting time on the internet can be a simple response to stress and boredom.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. You can teach yourself new and healthy ways to deal with stress and boredom, which you can then substitute in place of your bad habits.
Of course, sometimes the stress or boredom that is on the surface is actually caused by deeper issues. These issues can be tough to think about, but if you’re serious about making changes then you have to be honest with yourself.
Are there certain beliefs or reasons that are behind the bad habit? Is there something deeper — a fear, an event, or a limiting belief — that is causing you to hold on to something that is bad for you?
Recognizing the causes of your bad habits is crucial to overcoming them.
You don’t eliminate a bad habit, you replace it.
All of the habits that you have right now — good or bad — are in your life for a reason. In some way, these behaviors provide a benefit to you, even if they are bad for you in other ways.
Sometimes the benefit is biological like it is with smoking or drugs. Sometimes it’s emotional like it is when you stay in a relationship that is bad for you. And in many cases, your bad habit is a simple way to cope with stress. For example, biting your nails, pulling your hair, tapping your foot, or clenching your jaw.
These “benefits” or reasons extend to smaller bad habits as well.
For example, opening your email inbox as soon as you turn on your computer might make you feel connected. At the same time looking at all of those emails destroys your productivity, divides your attention, and overwhelms you with stress. But, it prevents you from feeling like you’re “missing out” … and so you do it again.
Because bad habits provide some type of benefit in your life, it’s very difficult to simply eliminate them. (This is why simplistic advice like “just stop doing it” rarely works.)
Instead, you need to replace a bad habit with a new habit that provides a similar benefit.
For example, if you smoke when you get stressed, then it’s a bad plan to “just stop smoking” when that happens. Instead, you should come up with a different way to deal with stress and insert that new behavior instead of having a cigarette.
In other words, bad habits address certain needs in your life. And for that reason, it’s better to replace your bad habits with a healthier behavior that addresses that same need. If you expect yourself to simply cut out bad habits without replacing them, then you’ll have certain needs that will be unmet and it’s going to be hard to stick to a routine of “just don’t do it” for very long.
How to break a bad habit
Here are some additional ideas for breaking your bad habits and thinking about the process in a new way.
Choose a substitute for your bad habit. You need to have a plan ahead of time for how you will respond when you face the stress or boredom that prompts your bad habit. What are you going to do when you get the urge to smoke? (Example: breathing exercises instead.) What are you going to do when Facebook is calling to you to procrastinate? (Example: write one sentence for work.) Whatever it is and whatever you’re dealing with, you need to have a plan for what you will do instead of your bad habit.
Cut out as many triggers as possible. If you smoke when you drink, then don’t go to the bar. If you eat cookies when they are in the house, then throw them all away. If the first thing you do when you sit on the couch is pick up the TV remote, then hide the remote in a closet in a different room. Make it easier on yourself to break bad habits by avoiding the things that cause them.
Right now, your environment makes your bad habit easier and good habits harder. Change your environment and you can change the outcome.
Join forces with somebody. How often do you try to diet in private? Or maybe you “quit smoking” … but you kept it to yourself? (That way no one will see you fail, right?)
Instead, pair up with someone and quit together. The two of you can hold each other accountable and celebrate your victories together. Knowing that someone else expects you to be better is a powerful motivator.
Surround yourself with people who live the way you want to live. You don’t need to ditch your old friends, but don’t underestimate the power of finding some new ones.
Visualize yourself succeeding. See yourself throwing away the cigarettes or buying healthy food or waking up early. Whatever the bad habit is that you are looking to break, visualize yourself crushing it, smiling, and enjoying your success. See yourself building a new identity.
You don’t need to be someone else, you just need to return to the old you. So often we think that to break our bad habits, we need to become an entirely new person. The truth is that you already have it in you to be someone without your bad habits. In fact, it’s very unlikely that you had these bad habits all of your life. You don’t need to quit smoking, you just need to return to being a non–smoker. You don’t need to transform into a healthy person, you just need to return to being healthy. Even if it was years ago, you have already lived without this bad habit, which means you can most definitely do it again.
Use the word “but” to overcome negative self–talk. One thing about battling bad habits is that it’s easy to judge yourself for not acting better. Every time you slip up or make a mistake, it’s easy to tell yourself how much you suck.
Whenever that happens, finish the sentence with “but”…
“I’m fat and out of shape, but I could be in shape a few months from now.”
“I’m stupid and nobody respects me, but I’m working to develop a valuable skill.”
“I’m a failure, but everybody fails sometimes.”
Plan for failure. We all slip up every now and then.
As my main man Steve Kamb says, “When you screw up, skip a workout, eat bad foods, or sleep in, it doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you human. Welcome to the club.”
So rather than beating yourself up over a mistake, plan for it. We all get off track, what separates top performers from everyone else is that they get back on track very quickly. For a handful of strategies that can help you bounce back when you make a mistake, read this article.
Where to go from here
If you’re looking for the first step to breaking your bad habits, I’d suggest starting with awareness.
It’s easy to get caught up in how you feel about your bad habits. You can make yourself feel guilty or spend your time dreaming about how you wish things were … but these thoughts take you away from what’s actually happening.
Instead, it’s awareness that will show you how to actually make change.
When does your bad habit actually happen?
How many times do you do it each day?
Where are you?
Who are you with?
What triggers the behavior and causes it to start?
Simply tracking these issues will make you more aware of the behavior and give you dozens of ideas for stopping it.
Here’s a simple way to start: just track how many times per day your bad habit happens. Put a piece of paper in your pocket and a pen. Each time your bad habit happens, mark it down on your paper. At the end of the day, count up all of the tally marks and see what your total is.
In the beginning your goal isn’t to judge yourself or feel guilty about doing something unhealthy or unproductive. The only goal is to be aware of when it happens and how often it happens. Wrap your head around the problem by being aware of it. Then, you can start to implement the ideas in this article and break your bad habit.
Breaking bad habits takes time and effort, but mostly it takes perseverance. Most people who end up breaking their bad habits try and fail multiple times before they make it work. You might not have success right away, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have it at all.

Why You Must Avoid Tight Clothes

April 04, 2018
Did you know that those tight jeans may be harming your health? Although they may be cute and in style, the truth is that tight clothing can be the source of a lot of health problems. Learn all about them here.
It may be fashionable, you may like how you look, or maybe you’ve gained a little weight and your clothes are too tight now…
The problem is that wearing tight clothing is bad for your health and it’s important to avoid this bad habit.
When your clothes define your figure
A pair of jeans that shows off your figure and makes you feel sexy, a shirt that highlights your feminine attributes, or a tight miniskirt that you love to wear…
So far so good, except for the fact that this tight clothing can actually be bad for your health.
This is especially true if you’re wearing “heavy” fabrics (such as denim), because it impedes circulation and promotes the appearance of varicose veins.
Nor is the solution to simply wear elastic garments, because they also compress the body and don’t allow the correct amount of blood flow.
There are other problems that are related to tight clothing:

1. Tight clothing prohibits return blood flow

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In your lower extremities, this is an important bodily function that’s vital for preventing your ankles from swelling, for example.The lack of return blood flow is dangerous to your health because it can also make you feel tired and fatigued. When your clothes are tightly fitted around the legs or waist, your heart has to work harder to help the blood to return.

2. It promotes the appearance of varicose veins

This is a very common problem among women. The hormone progesterone is what causes veins to dilate above their natural opening.
 When your clothes are too tight, your circulation is poor and it can worsen this condition.
According to one study, 31% of the female population has varicose veins. This condition may become worse from the use of oral contraceptives, wearing tight pants, and standing for long periods of time.

3. It promotes the development of cellulite

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This is another one of women’s greatest problems.In fact, tight garments don’t actually cause cellulite to form, but they hasten its appearance. This is becausethey impair the passage of blood flow and encourage the development of fat nodules in the thighs.

4. It doesn’t allow you to “breathe”

The pressure in the lungs and trachea caused by tight clothing can prevent you from breathing well.
When gas exchange in the chest area is not performed efficiently, it can build up and accelerate the oxidation of your cells. This can result in premature aging.
As if that weren’t enough, shallow breathing doesn’t properly oxygenate the brain. This can cause stress and a lack of concentration.
So tight clothing definitely doesn’t promote relaxation – quite the opposite.

5. It causes back pain

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You might think those things can’t be related, but it’s enough to do a little test to find out that tight clothing is one of the causes of lumbar or pelvic pain.Wearing clothes that restrict your movements forces you to strain certain muscles and makes your vertebrae work harder than usual.
Your hips become compressed and have trouble carrying the weight of your body, which they would normally support. If your arms and legs don’t have freedom of motion, you’ll end your day feeling heavy with aches and tingling.

6. It slows digestion

When your pants or belt are too tight, it doesn’t allow your abdominal area to expand when you’re eating and after meals.
The stomach expands during digestive processes due to the acids that are needed.
For this reason, tight clothing usually causes indigestion, acidity, and reflux. It can also lead to constipation, intestinal pain, and abdominal swelling.

7. It allows vaginal fungi to flourish

Wearing clothing so close to the body increases temperature and humidity. In the genital area, this promotes the appearance of fungi and bacteria. This can cause bad odors or problems like yeast infections.
For men, tight underwear and pants can affect the quality and quantity of sperm, while also causing testicular pain.

8. It causes skin problems

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Your skin may also suffer when it can’t “breathe.”For example, many things can happen if the pants or skirt you wear is not only very tight but also made with a non-breathable material. It can cause redness, itchiness, and even ingrown hairs on the legs (because the hair can’t grow as easily).

9. It increases sweating

And, as a final consequence, bad odours in the underarm, foot, or genital areas may be due to tight clothing.
Garments made of fabrics like nylon or lycra are even worse, and they become a breeding ground for all types of bacteria

Overcoming Peer Pressure Influence

April 04, 2018
1. Ask 101 questions.
For example, if a pal pressures you to smoke, ask her why she smokes, how long she has smoked, if she minds having ashtray breath.
2. Say “No” like you mean it.
Make eye contact, then say “No” forcefully, with authority. The more certain you are in your refusal, the less people will bug you.
3. Back-up a no with a positive statement.
For example, if you’re turning down an offer to smoke weed, say something like, “I like my brain the way it is, thanks.”
4. Be repetitive.
Don’t hesitate to state your position over and over again.
5. Practice saying no.
Practice saying ‘no’ in safe environments, like when your big brother asks you if you’d like to spend Saturday night doing his laundry.
6. Get away from the pressure zone.
Leave the scene… make your exit.
7. Avoid stressful situations in the first place.
If you know there’s going to be alcohol or drugs at a party, make other plans. Or, if you’re going out with a guy, avoid being alone with him… anywhere he might pressure you to get more physical than you want to be.
8. Use the buddy system.
Find a friend who shares your values and back each other up.
9 Confront the leader of the pack.
The best way to handle a peer pressure bully is to nab him (or her) when the two of you are alone and explain how you’re feeling and ask him/her to get off your case.
10. Consider the results of giving in.
Take a moment to think about the consequences of your actions.
11. Look for positive role models.
Ever notice that the real popular and successful teens at your school are the ones who weren’t afraid to say what they like and don’t like?
12. Don’t buy the line that everyone’s doing it.
The truth is, everyone’s NOT doing it.
13. Seek support.
Talk out any peer pressure you’re experiencing with other friends who are also feeling the squeeze. I can be reassuring to know that you’re not the only one.
14. Be your own best friend.
Remind yourself every now and then that you’re special and nuke any negative statements.
15. Find ways to excel.
Challenge yourself to do your best. Focus your attention on following your personal goals instead of the goals of the group.
16. Don’t pressure others.
Watch out for any subtle forms of pressure you may be exerting.
17. Speak out!
Fight peer pressure by taking the side of the underdog. Supporting others’ opinions will send the message that you think for yourself.
18. Watch your moods.
Be aware that your moods can affect your sensibility.
 19. Evaluate your friendships.
If your friends are always bugging you to do something you’re not comfortable with, remember that true friends like you for who you are, not who they want you to be.
20. Find new friends.
If you’ve decided that your friends don’t have your best interests at heart, search out new friends who share your values and interests.

8 Ways to Maintain a Social Life and Be Healthy

April 04, 2018
Deciding to turn over a new leaf and lead a healthier life is a major step in itself, but that’s almost the easy part. On our own, we can tackle eating healthier, drinking less and moving more, but what about when we want to connect with friends and family? For many of us, socializing often consists of grabbing a glass of wine with a friend or getting pizza for game night, but the road to a healthier, more fit you don’t have to mean completely giving up your social life.
Here are eight ways to accomplish your health goals while Maintain a Social Life and Be Healthy.
Publicly announcing your commitment to healthier living can help keep you accountable — and your friends and followers will likely support and cheer you on along the way. Checking in at the gym, taking sweaty selfies and posting healthy food pics are great ways to stay accountable.
When it comes to working toward fitness goals or sticking to a health-focused food regime, spending time with friends who have similar goals is more likely to help keep you on track. In other words, you’ll be less likely to participate in a city-wide pizza tasting tour.
Meeting up with friends to go for a hike or take a boot camp class can be an excellent way to socialize, too. You can give each other support during a grueling workout, then bond over how sore you’re going to be the next day. Plus, making plans with a friend also makes you less likely to flake on them, and vice versa — a win-win!
The cost-saving measure of “pregaming” in your early twenties involved mixing drinks at home before hitting the club, but you can tailor that concept to prepare for a night out. Instead of arriving at an event hungry, snack on a piece of fruit or a handful of almonds before heading out.
An easy way to cut calories is to drink water or a non-alcoholic fruit shrub instead of a cocktail. But, you don’t have to give up alcohol completely if you don’t want to — opt for lower-calorie drinks like vodka soda or champagne. Also, make sure you’re drinking a fair amount of water between alcoholic beverages.
Eating family-style means you can try more things and watch your portions. Many restaurants offer exceptionally large portions, sometimes doubling or tripling a “normal” serving size, resulting in calorie bombs. Try to leave some food on your plate or box it up to take home.
Even if you’re not a whiz in the kitchen, if you master some healthy dishes, you can prove to your guests that healthy eating can be fulfilling and delicious. It can even include dessert!
As the night progresses, it’s easy to let your guard down and maybe fall off the wagon. Instead, before the party plan on a certain time when it’s best to leave and stick to it. Sleep deprivation can wreak havoc on your system — and you’ll thank yourself in the morning.
 
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